When I was growing up. I had a
Christmas secret that always made me smile. Not the I-can't-wait grin of
anticipation, but the cat-with-whiskers-full-of-cream variety. You see...I
believed I had an "in" with the Big Guy Up North...a connection no other child
possessed. My very own grandmother was an official North Pole employee with the
title "Santa's Helper." Her name was Patta Gray.
Patta and
Richard Gray on their 50th Anniversary
Santa's Helper at Work...
She confided this to
me when I was very young, and I believed her. Why wouldn't I? Her house was
filled with dolls and toys all year long! Not to mention she excelled in making
gingerbread cakes and cookies with brown sugar topping. And she was soft
and pink and smelled delicious...just like Mrs. Santa Claus must.
Shirley,
Mike and little sister Patti on a visit to Grandma Patta's.
Sometimes I got to
visit for a few days. Grandma Patta and I spent the time up to our elbows in
fabric scraps and patterns. The bodice of grandma's dress was studded with
straight pins in lieu of a pincushion, keeping her hands free to cut and stitch
the tiny clothes for all of Santa's dolls. With my awkward "help" she made
designer outfits for Barbie, chic Chanel-style suits with real mink
collars...just like Jackie Kennedy wore. Ruffled dresses for Chatty Cathy were
next on the list, adorned with yards and yards of lace trimming. Even G.I. Joe
got a new uniform or two! (Grandma hated Joe's big floppy feet...it made him
hard to dress.)
Chatty
Cathy...I didn't like her for some reason...she looked kind of
bratty.
In the evenings,
Grandpa Rich would get out his tools and work on the Barbie-size furniture he
designed. He made four-poster beds and pink vanities with little gold knobs.
The closet had sliding doors and rods filled with little pink hangers. With a
hammer and wee brass tacks, he patiently upholstered miniature sofas and
chairs. I was lucky enough to receive some of his furniture for Christmas one
year.
My first
Barbie looked like this one.
My first
Ken had this fuzzy hair that came off if he got wet.
A Test of Faith...
I felt so special
being let in on such an important secret. There were times I was tempted to
brag about Grandma's unique job. But the kids I played with were starting to
say awful things about Santa...that he didn't exist! Grandma had a
saying...something about pearls before swine. Her secret was too precious to
waste on non-believers.
As the years went by,
it became more difficult to keep the faith. The pressure was on from friends
and siblings to admit that Santa Claus was a hoax. But I stubbornly clung to
the hope that they were wrong. One Christmas Eve I lined my dolls up on the
couch so Santa could see that I took good care of my toys. My brother Mike
teased me for being such a baby. "There's no such thing as Santa," he
snickered.
Patti Play
Pal.
I found out
the hard way one Christmas morning that Grandma Zetta's lipstick is
forever!
Poor Patti
Play Pal!
A few minutes later,
Mom came into the room and told us to get ready to go to Grandma's. It was
almost time for Santa to come and pick up the doll clothes and take them back to
the North Pole. He was a bit behind schedule and the elves needed to get the
dolls dressed. I smirked when I saw the startled expression on Mike's face.
He'd see!
Still...something
deep inside nagged at me all the way to Lehi, where my grandparents lived.
"He's not coming," the voice of doubt informed me. "He's not real." I
remembered everything my friends had told me. They said it was all a big
lie...our parents bought the toys and pretended to be Santa.
Miss Revlon
had pierced ears!
Waiting and Waiting...
While the adults
visited at Grandma's, I squirmed on the sofa. Anticipation and dread played tag
in my stomach and I couldn't eat the cookies grandma had made. When you are a
child, minutes seem like hours, and waiting is torture. He's not
coming.
As I squeezed my eyes
shut and focused all my faith into a wish...I heard the silver tinkle of sleigh
bells. I knew that if I opened my eyes, the magic wouldn't work. But the sound
of boots on the front porch stamping off the snow seemed real enough. Grandma
hurried to the door.
How I
remember Santa...so many years ago.
"Merry Christmas!" a
hearty voice boomed. When I opened my eyes, a man in red stood in the doorway
shaking snow off his whiskers. I watched in awe as Santa reached into his sack
and pulled out a candy cane for each of us. My little sisters danced about with
excitement and forgot to say thank you. But I remembered! He winked
at me, restoring my faith for another year.
Grandma made doll
clothes for many years after that, taking orders from neighbors and friends.
Even when I was finally too old to believe in Santa Claus, she still personified
the Spirit of Christmas. I wish my own children could have known her.
Cute little
brother Tommy and sister Lisa came along some years after this
story.
Look
at their sweet little faces. I miss these little kids.
"May your days be merry and bright,
And may all your Christmases be white..."
It's Snowing!
Merry White Christmas!!
